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Hyper-Empathic Projecting: When Ppl are Too Wrapped up in their bs, They Can’t See Reality!!

Hyper-Empathic Projecting...
Hyper-Empathic Projecting...

Are Your Emotions Ruling You? The Unhealthy and Inaccurate Toxic Hyper-Empathic Projection Responses No one EVER Wants to Admit!

“THERE IS NO SUCH THING IN NATURE AS "GOOD OR BAD VIBES," IT IS ALL JUST SIMPLY AN OCEAN OF ELECTROMAGNETIC ENERGY IN MOTION, EM OCEANS of E MOTIONS AND VIBRATION. 

There is only sympathetic vibratory harmonic resonance, coherence, or phase conjugation and conversely harmonic interference or dissonance. 

The distinction between conjugation or coherence and interference comes only by YOUR OWN PERSONAL REACTION TO THE FREQUENCY OF EXTERNAL STIMULI based on CELLULAR VIBRATORY RESONANCE which is deterMIND and controlled based on YOUR OWN PERCEPTIONS, BELIEFS AND WORLDVIEW. This is why what is positive to you does not resonate with someone else. 

Let me offer a hypothetical story. Lets pretend I am conversing with big Bertha about symbolism and bring up the true origins of Cunt from my Symbols of Power film series. Big bertha is ignorant of esoterica and only focuses on lightworking, angels, Doreen Virtue and only positively erroneous fantasies of light and fears any contemplation of the mechanics of control or the origins modern "negative" linguistic or symbolic associations that originally have sacred meanings, and thus she judges my understanding and knowledge as "negative and bad vibes", but the truth is she only having HER OWN negative experience of something quite liberated from all fear and negativity, due to her false programming and erroneous belief systems, which cause her physiology to go into cognitive dissonance, which makes her feel bad about something that is not negative at all. 

Truth is not based on how you feel, and it does not usually make you feel good. 

The following is an excerpt from my article "Are Your Emotions RULING You? An Empaths Guide to Strengthening" >>https://www.patreon.com/posts/3316810

EM-pathos or SYM-pathos??

Should we autonomously EMpathize without any control, or should we gain self mastery and then be able to SYMpathize instead?? 

EMPATHOS is unwittingly taking on inside yourself what you percieve others to be feeling, based on what you project out as insecurity and the erroneous need for external validation from the root of *kwent(h)- Proto-Indo-European root meaning "TO SUFFER!"

Kwent(h)- forms all or part of: anthropopathy; antipathy; apathy; empathy; idiopathy; nepenthe; osteopathy; -path; pathetic; -pathic; patho-; pathogenic; pathognomonic; pathology; pathos; -pathy; psychopathic; sympathy. It is the hypothetical source of/evidence for its existence is provided by: Greek pathos "SUFFERING, FEELING, EMOTION, CALAMITY," penthos "GRIEF, SORROW;" Old Irish cessaim "I SUFFER;" Lithuanian kenčiu, kentėti "TO SUFFER," pakanta "patience."  

Greek empatheia "PASSION (SUFFERING), STATE OF EMOTION," from assimilated form of en "in" + pathos "feeling" (see pathos). A term from a theory of art appreciation that maintains appreciation DEPENDING ON THE VIEWER'S ABILITY TO PROJECT HIS/HER PERSONALITY INTO THE VIEWED OBJECT....   

The Solution??                       

            STOP PROJECTING! 

SYMPATHY: "SIMILAR FEELING" literally "symilar pathology" (relating to another's feelings)

from sympathes "having a fellow feeling, affected by like feelings," from assimilated form of syn- "together" (see SYN-) + pathos "feeling" (see PATHOS). http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?allowed_in_frame=0&search=sympathy&searchmode=none

SYMPATHOS is the CONTROLLED WILL to align yourself with the sympathetic vibratory resonance of another persons plight or circumstance. The difference is that EMPATHY is INVOLUNTARY and affects you, while SYMPATHY is VOLUNTARY and extended forth from you as a helping hand is.  

RECAP:

To SYMPATHIZE is to willfully RELATE to another's feelings WITHOUT UNWITTINGLY TAKING IN OTHERS' FEELINGS AS OUR OWN (taking things personally). 

Being "overly" or "hyper" empathic means that we literally take in another's feelings and emotions AS IF THEY BELONG TO US, which causes SUFFERING which is why it literally means SUFFERING, because we have yet to PROPERLY DEFINE OUR PERSONAL BOUNDARIES BETWEEN SELF AND OTHER, AND THUS ARE CONSTANTLY LOOKING OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES FOR VALIDATION, WHICH WILL NEVER COME, AND THUS TAKING IN OTHERS' FEELINGS IN PLACE OF OUR OWN TRUE CORE FEELING, AS THE ONLY VALIDATION THAT WILL EVER CREATE PURPOSE, COMES FROM WITHIN.

What causes the imbalance leading to hyper-empathy is some sort of stress or trauma that triggers a swing toward right hemisphere dominance in the brain, as well as the limbic system (emotional center) overriding the cognitive (rational) functions.

This chat will help you grasp this understanding of how your body functions as a feedback loop with the mind, based on our lifestyle and dietary choices. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGaSGX8qRCQ

-Cullen Smith
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